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    Chores and Children: How Parents Fake 'Listening' as Actually Obedience

    Parent Question 1.       

    How can I make my child listen?

    Parent Coach Answer 1.         

    You mean 'obey.'

    Respect is not a synonym for obedience, from The Manual Your Child Came With by Linda Clement, copyright 2020Question 1.a.    

    No, no, no, not at all.

    Answer 1.a.       

    Oh, yes, you do. You just shy from the word 'obey.' You still mean 'how can I make my kid do what I want my kid to do?

    Question 1.b.   

    Well, okay... maybe. But how?

    Answer 1.b.       

    Go back to the beginning and order a child with the Voice Command Software pre-installed. Sorry, it is not available aftermarket. There is no app for that.

    Question 2.     

    Why do my kids do what the teacher (scout leader, neighbours, etc.) tell them to do and it never works for me?

    Answer 2.    

    Because your kid trusts you. You can destroy that, if obedience is more important...

    Question 2.a.    Cooperation is Modelled not Ordered, from The Manual Your Child Came With by Linda Clement, copyright 2020

    No, no, I don't want obedience, I just want them to _______________[fill in blank]

    Answer 2.a.    

    Yes: you want them to obey orders.

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